pandap
Well, there are all kinds of couples. I once knew a couple who were very happy together... as long as one of them was lead on a leash like a dog.
People just make it work.
Just a pet peeve of mine... "disinterested" means neutral, as in not being invested in an outcome. A judge, for example, must be disinterested. A lack of interest is "uninterested."
I didn't realise we had pedantic grammar police on site.
Perhaps I should have said "disinterested in Tarot", though no doubt you would have pulled that up, as strictly speaking I believe being disinterested in something should mean they were initially interested, but for some reason, are no longer interested, even though it is commonly used to refer to generally not interested in the broader sense.
I don't have a problem with "disinterested" unless the meaning is ambiguous, which in this case, I don't believe it is. In actual fact, disinterested was originally used to mean "showing no interest or concern" more so than "unbiased, objective or unprejudiced". It is only more recent times that it has been favoured to be used more strictly in the legal sense.
To me it has a better ring to it and flows more smoothly. I would rather say "I am disinterested in this conversation", than "I am uninterested in this conversation", as I personally think it flows better.
Personal choice is a marvellous thing.
I will however, endeavour to ensure I use the correct word to reflect the relevant meaning in the event its usage is necessary before a court of law.