Kurenai
I had a question about the coffin card (deep sound of organ music cue here).
When a coffin card comes up in readings regarding relationships, one naturally concludes that the relationship is to "end." However, while reading through many examples of other people's Lenormand spreads on relationships, coffin rarely comes up.
However, it depends on the surrounding cards too -- which makes me a bit confused.
So here are some examples I had... It is two reading I've done on two different occasions for the same relationship... As in, "what can one expect from this relationship?"
1) clover - house - fish - sun - lady - man - cross - coffin - rider
--> For this I did not use the focus card and it was striking that the lady and man showed up. I read this as that while the relationship brought joy and distraction (clover) to both parties and gave lots of memories (fish), it was fated to be over (cross and coffin), but the woman will soon find another man (rider)
2) book - ring - scythe - anchor - coffin
--> For this, I read this as that this relationship was under almost a contract-like state (book and ring). However, the conditions and terms of this contract will be swiftly chucked out the window (scythe) and what seemed like a stable relationship will come to a close (anchor and coffin).
Am I taking the coffin card to literally and seriously? Could it be that it can denote "rebirth" and "change" and I am completely missing the point?
When a coffin card comes up in readings regarding relationships, one naturally concludes that the relationship is to "end." However, while reading through many examples of other people's Lenormand spreads on relationships, coffin rarely comes up.
However, it depends on the surrounding cards too -- which makes me a bit confused.
So here are some examples I had... It is two reading I've done on two different occasions for the same relationship... As in, "what can one expect from this relationship?"
1) clover - house - fish - sun - lady - man - cross - coffin - rider
--> For this I did not use the focus card and it was striking that the lady and man showed up. I read this as that while the relationship brought joy and distraction (clover) to both parties and gave lots of memories (fish), it was fated to be over (cross and coffin), but the woman will soon find another man (rider)
2) book - ring - scythe - anchor - coffin
--> For this, I read this as that this relationship was under almost a contract-like state (book and ring). However, the conditions and terms of this contract will be swiftly chucked out the window (scythe) and what seemed like a stable relationship will come to a close (anchor and coffin).
Am I taking the coffin card to literally and seriously? Could it be that it can denote "rebirth" and "change" and I am completely missing the point?