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I personally think that everyone has a different idea of what a "good reader" or "legit reader" is...not to say that there are no "con readers" out there because I am sure there are...however if someone did come to me with those questions I would politely refer them to someone who would be a better fit for the sitter...not because I am afraid to answer the questions or because of ego but more so because just like a sitter has every right to choose a reader...the reader also has rights and if they don't feel the sitter is a good fit, why force the reading? you want the client to be comfortable with the reader and the reading and want them to leave happy at the end of the day...

Before I do a reading though I do explain my process to the sitter because every reader has a different style...and I do want them to engage and interact with me, I want them to feel comfortable with me as well so I say my schpiel and I let them know that after the reading is done they can ask me questions...

If a sitter reads cards as well and starts putting their input while im reading, then I would get frustrated because why would you come to me for a reading if you are just going to read your own cards anyway? the whole point in this case is to get a different perspective, and if you're going to read your own cards and interpret them then you're not allowing for that outside perspective...so you might as well just read for yourself and save yourself the bucks in that case.

If after my reading is done and the sitter was unable to relate to anything and they felt I was completely off...then I would offer their money back because my goal as a reader is for you to gain something out of my readings, and if you haven't then I haven't done my job and so I wouldn't expect for you to pay for a service that you were unhappy with...

However, any questions about religious beliefs, should not be relevant...this is not about me...so my religious beliefs should not be of any importance in a reading...


There was more I wanted to add but I forgot now lol
just my 2 cents...
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