Shared Experience Spread (10)

*Phoenyx

I created this spread to show how an experience/event has affected your relationship with someone. This could be a first date, a shared trip, or trying out a new hobby. And, of course, the relationship doesn't have to be intimate. Try it with a friend or family member.


......2...3
.....4.....5
....6...1...7
......8...9
........10

1. the event
2. Querent's feelings going in
3. Other's feelings going in
4. Querent's needs
5. Other's needs
6. Querent's expectations
7. Other's expectations
8. Querent's experience
9. Other's experience
10. The affected relationship


When reading, Card 1 is not read on it's own but it acts as a supplement for reading cards 2-7. Card's 8 & 9 are read on their own but also act as supplement cards for Card 10, Card 1 can also act as a supplement for reading Card 10.