csdude
I thought that I was in a budding relationship, anyway, but this has been THE most confusing! I'm hoping you guys might be able to help me understand this a little better.
I'm a man, born on August 24 so I'm a Leo/Virgo cusp. She was born on November 12 so she's a Scorpio, but near the end of the sign.
Back in December, she contacted me unexpectedly, and we started talking. We hit it off quickly, and she asked me on a date. We made plans for the next week, and talked every day after, for hours on end. She was pretty flirty, talking about things like kissing and such.
But then the day came, and she totally disappeared. She wouldn't reply to my messages or texts, so she more or less just stood me up.
The next day, she sent me a message to apologize (no excuse, though), and rescheduled. But this time, she hardly spoke to me all week, and inevitably stood me up again. Then rescheduled, but was even colder that week. And stood me up again.
By that point, I was pretty angry and done. She SAID that she still liked me and was interested, but she certainly didn't act like it. So I stopped replying and forgot about her.
Time passes...
On March 30, she contacted me again, unexpectedly. We hadn't spoken in 2 1/2 months, and I hadn't seen her in 3 months. And honestly, I'd totally forgotten about her.
Again, though, we hit it off quickly, and started talking online for hours. She still seemed pretty flirty, and was very receptive to MY flirting.
After the first week, though, the conversations dropped down to almost nothing. Some days were hot, but sometimes she would go days between talking to me. We would be going back and forth, then I would send a message with no reply... and she would send a message that says "hey" 3 or 4 days later.
She asked me to come see her at work last Tuesday, which I did. She was very giggly and excited to see me, kept touching my shoulders, and at one point said that I was making her nervous. So this seemed all very positive.
But then, we had plans for Friday morning (I was going to give her a ride to the DMV, then spend the day together). Thursday night, I sent a message asking where and when I should pick her up, which she read but didn't reply. Friday morning, she finally replied and simply said, "Hey I'm not going today".
I replied and asked if everything was OK, but she hasn't replied.
Now, I've never dated a Scorpio before, so I can't tell if these are common traits to the sign, or what.
Is it "normal" for a Scorpio to go from hot to cold for no reason, in a matter of minutes? Are they notoriously kind of flaky, without explanation?
Tarot readings seem positive (usually), and a recurring theme is "patience". But I don't want to be TOO patient for a woman that's lost interest.
I'm a man, born on August 24 so I'm a Leo/Virgo cusp. She was born on November 12 so she's a Scorpio, but near the end of the sign.
Back in December, she contacted me unexpectedly, and we started talking. We hit it off quickly, and she asked me on a date. We made plans for the next week, and talked every day after, for hours on end. She was pretty flirty, talking about things like kissing and such.
But then the day came, and she totally disappeared. She wouldn't reply to my messages or texts, so she more or less just stood me up.
The next day, she sent me a message to apologize (no excuse, though), and rescheduled. But this time, she hardly spoke to me all week, and inevitably stood me up again. Then rescheduled, but was even colder that week. And stood me up again.
By that point, I was pretty angry and done. She SAID that she still liked me and was interested, but she certainly didn't act like it. So I stopped replying and forgot about her.
Time passes...
On March 30, she contacted me again, unexpectedly. We hadn't spoken in 2 1/2 months, and I hadn't seen her in 3 months. And honestly, I'd totally forgotten about her.
Again, though, we hit it off quickly, and started talking online for hours. She still seemed pretty flirty, and was very receptive to MY flirting.
After the first week, though, the conversations dropped down to almost nothing. Some days were hot, but sometimes she would go days between talking to me. We would be going back and forth, then I would send a message with no reply... and she would send a message that says "hey" 3 or 4 days later.
She asked me to come see her at work last Tuesday, which I did. She was very giggly and excited to see me, kept touching my shoulders, and at one point said that I was making her nervous. So this seemed all very positive.
But then, we had plans for Friday morning (I was going to give her a ride to the DMV, then spend the day together). Thursday night, I sent a message asking where and when I should pick her up, which she read but didn't reply. Friday morning, she finally replied and simply said, "Hey I'm not going today".
I replied and asked if everything was OK, but she hasn't replied.
Now, I've never dated a Scorpio before, so I can't tell if these are common traits to the sign, or what.
Is it "normal" for a Scorpio to go from hot to cold for no reason, in a matter of minutes? Are they notoriously kind of flaky, without explanation?
Tarot readings seem positive (usually), and a recurring theme is "patience". But I don't want to be TOO patient for a woman that's lost interest.