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...Erzulie Danto--hmm, I like your answer. It's more in depth than I was thinking! Mostly it's that her veve (sigil, calling card, kind of) is a heart with a sword (or two) through it, so I was just thinking about the visual. But for Erzulie in general (Erzulie is Freda as well as Danto, on they are sisters, depending on who you ask), yes, the pain of love, unrequited or even otherwise, is perfect, actually.
<very wide smile> - yes - I know all about Sigils and printed out the veve's I could find some-time ago (I'm Wiccan). I'm looking at Erzulie's now. Hmmm - I see what you mean... I like the version without a sword in it though - also alot more styalized...
Very pretty. I suppose this must be the veve for Erzulie Freda (after google ).
Interesting duality. Such "Rhaaah" factor... <twinkling eyes>
This is an image from my Roots of Asia tarot
https://voicewithinthecards.files.wordpress.com/2014/06/3-of-swords.jpg?w=386&h=600
Intriguing image...
Thankyou!
I'm immediately reminded of another friend (Lol) - who for many years did not celebrate his birthday because it was on the same week as the death of his father.
When I found this out - I said "What d'ya mean you don't celebrate your birthday? Hmm. Do you think your father would really approve? and - you realise that by doing this, you may in some way be "pinning" his spirit down - because he's likely to be hanging around worrying about you on his death anniversary...".
He now celebrates his birthday.