Miss Woo
Is it safe to say that you had received that which you requested -a reading? People are different and styles of delivery are different. There is a 50/50 chance I will feel some type of empathy towards a querent and other times I simply read the cards and move on. Personally, a tarot reader cannot make me feel "disempowered". I think such feelings have more to do with the querent's personality rather than the reader.
There is a reader who has a really heavy "dark cloud" type of energy with her presence and readings. I usually avoid exchanging with her as even her feedback has the negative energy. I think that is the best we can do. ☺
I don't think I'm explaining myself very well When I have a Tarot reading, I have an expectation that the experience will be empowering for me. That's why I 'do' Tarot.
I don't think the Tarot reader themselves 'disempowered' me; I think the experience left me feeling that way, like I was in a hole with no way out.
I honestly don't have a problem with 'bad news'. I'm one of those realist people who prefer the truth no matter how bad it is. I respect and appreciate people who are straight with me