Chubby Mummy
Yeah Waleswoman, youre right, 4 of cups is a good one too.
Sometimes women dont actually ask me, or even realise that their husband is with them from pity. I didnt mean this for a woman who came to me and specifically asked me, "i think my man feels sorry for me because i just lost my job/wrote off my car/just got pregnant to his child" (delete where appropriate). Sometimes, these women, are women i know, whose husbands/lovers are friends of my husbands and tell him or suggest to him that those are the reasons that they remain in the relationship. They will come and say to me, oh go on for a laugh do me a relationship spread for me n hubs, and then cards like the 2 of swords and 4 of cups will come up for his feelings and i will say things like, oh it seems like your life isnt too interesting at the moment, you might feel a touch bored but it will pass, maybe take hubs on holiday somewhere exciting??? (i dont like to be negative in readings, even if it was something like, tower/10 swords/3 swords all together, i will always look to the positive side of each card.)
My husband was one of those men who stayed in a relationship for 8 years from pity. His ex's mother died, they lost their baby, and she was majorly depressed, he was too much of a coward to dump her on top of that. (long story how he did get to leave her in the end)
Thanks for all your input everyone, its all good quality info and most of its goin in my notes!
xxx
take care
cm
Sometimes women dont actually ask me, or even realise that their husband is with them from pity. I didnt mean this for a woman who came to me and specifically asked me, "i think my man feels sorry for me because i just lost my job/wrote off my car/just got pregnant to his child" (delete where appropriate). Sometimes, these women, are women i know, whose husbands/lovers are friends of my husbands and tell him or suggest to him that those are the reasons that they remain in the relationship. They will come and say to me, oh go on for a laugh do me a relationship spread for me n hubs, and then cards like the 2 of swords and 4 of cups will come up for his feelings and i will say things like, oh it seems like your life isnt too interesting at the moment, you might feel a touch bored but it will pass, maybe take hubs on holiday somewhere exciting??? (i dont like to be negative in readings, even if it was something like, tower/10 swords/3 swords all together, i will always look to the positive side of each card.)
My husband was one of those men who stayed in a relationship for 8 years from pity. His ex's mother died, they lost their baby, and she was majorly depressed, he was too much of a coward to dump her on top of that. (long story how he did get to leave her in the end)
Thanks for all your input everyone, its all good quality info and most of its goin in my notes!
xxx
take care
cm