PeonyInLove
CrimsonRed seems to be the expert here and I'm sure she'll be back to give more information but I can tell you that you don't have to watch the candle the whole time. My goodness that could take days depending on the candle. Could you imagine watching a 7 day candle? Maybe at the start you could see how it's burning and come back to check on it from time to time. That's what I do. I know others suggest lighting the candle then let it do its thing.
I honestly think everyone holds this ability and it doesn't matter where your planets were when you were born. People's wishes come true all the time but they might not be aware of how they did or in what way. As far as wishes go, I think it has to do with letting go of the intent. When you hold on to it, that is keeping in a state of want, the Universe gives you that, a state of wanting. It's when you "let go" of the wanting the "order" is free to be delivered. Understanding this part is the key to successful manifestations.
Candles, jars and other items are just tools to assist us with our creations. Candles just happen to be very effective for me.
Thank you xx I very much agree that we all have the power to manifest wishes yet some don't know how to utilise it. I meant that it feels natural to me kind of thing...
Lol yeh 7 day candle wld be tiresome lol I only use the chime candles so it takes maybe like an hour or 2 to burn.