Spread questions

Samantha164

What spread do you recommend for the following:

- To find out if someone you are interested in is interested in you

- To find out if they realize you are interested in them and how they feel about that.

Any advice is appreciated.
Thanks so much,
Sam
 

Umbrae

Samantha164 said:
- To find out if someone you are interested in is interested in you

- To find out if they realize you are interested in them and how they feel about that.
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Most responsible veteran readers would advise that Tarot may not work well as a mind reading tool, and that third party readings are rarely accurate.
 

Glass Owl

Here is a relationship spread that I came up with that is about the relationship itself as well as your role in it.

A Relationship Spread That Isn't About The Other Person
http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=101584

I also created a spread called Preparing For Love Spread at http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=79552

I also really like Josh's The True Heart of the Relationship Spread which is at http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=40209

Another relationship spread you may like is from The Tarot Bible by Sarah Bartlett.

The Relationship Right Now Spread
(The relationship and its qualities)

For this spread the author recommends that you use the Major Arcana only for an in-depth interpretation but I think that it works just fine using the whole deck.

--1--
2---3
--4--
5---6
--7--

1. Its energy
2. Its communication
3. Its strength
4. Its weakness
5. Its reality
6. Its passion
7. Its key to the future

If you're really looking for a nosey, controversial spread (and yes, this one falls under what Umbrae is speaking of) there is The Mind Reader Spread at http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=102725 I actually took that spread and modified it. Here is my version:

1-2
3-4---5-7*-6

1. What do I need to know regarding x's subconscious thoughts about me?
2. What do I need to know regarding x's subsconscious feelings towards me?
3. What do I need to know regarding x's conscious thoughts about me?
4. What I need to know regarding x's conscious feelings towards me?
5. Why is this so? What is influencing our relationship currently?
6. What should I do? (Advice)
7.* Optional: What direction is our relationship currently heading?
 
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