katieb
Hi
I have been guilty of this as well. However i find it harsh to tell someone that their question is not valid because at the time that question is of the utmost importance to them. The readings i received were part of the problem and part of the solution in my case. If divination wouldn't have been in my life, i believe i would have left X ages ago. But through my own self reflection, I was able to start 'living' again and my relationship with the cards is now a healthy one.
What i am NOT a fan of is if the person is posting on each and every thread imaginable and then they ask me for a reading. I feel that my response and insights will mean nothing to them. I spend time on my readings and knowing that the person just doesn't give a shit, well i don't want to put the effort into it.
All in all though, i think people get addicted to readings like a junkie to heroin. Therefore i think human compassion is key, but i have had to turn people away that have pm'd me for more readings and admit to suicidal thoughts. I can't put myself into those situations anymore as they are too draining, so i don't go in the reading exchanges anymore but will do some via PM for those people i hold close to my heart ♥
I have been guilty of this as well. However i find it harsh to tell someone that their question is not valid because at the time that question is of the utmost importance to them. The readings i received were part of the problem and part of the solution in my case. If divination wouldn't have been in my life, i believe i would have left X ages ago. But through my own self reflection, I was able to start 'living' again and my relationship with the cards is now a healthy one.
What i am NOT a fan of is if the person is posting on each and every thread imaginable and then they ask me for a reading. I feel that my response and insights will mean nothing to them. I spend time on my readings and knowing that the person just doesn't give a shit, well i don't want to put the effort into it.
All in all though, i think people get addicted to readings like a junkie to heroin. Therefore i think human compassion is key, but i have had to turn people away that have pm'd me for more readings and admit to suicidal thoughts. I can't put myself into those situations anymore as they are too draining, so i don't go in the reading exchanges anymore but will do some via PM for those people i hold close to my heart ♥