ElliDee:
I do not know of any spread that addresses your questions in particular, but I suggest that you create your own spread using these same questions, and perhaps, adding some others, to find out about the other person's feelings to you (could it be before and after), motivations, etc. I am sure that if you create your own spread and post it in this forum, there will be many members who would give you suggestions to improve it or fine tune it. Happy spreading! Blessings,
Zelmira