Originally Posted by Minderwiz
If this is the guy that you've been seeing, then the fifth shows him to be a (former) romantic attachment. I did think of that as a possibility earlier, but decded it was probably unlikely. His wife would be signified by the ruler of the opposite sign to Jupiter. With Jupiter in Libra, that would make her significator Mars, which is placed in the twelfth house of secret enemies.
Mars' ruler is Venus which is in the eleventh house of friends, ruled by Jupiter.
So if your absolutely sure, it was him and his wife. Then the placements in this horary fit the facts very well.
Yes it does unfortunately seem that way, just don't know how it has happened though. She must have been given my name by him, for her to do this....and realistically he could have give her a false name if she was pressuring him for it.
So going on this chart and card readings too, it does seem like his wife yes...but the confusion is still there on why he would do this, on giving her my real name.
I obviously didn't know him aswell as i thought. Unless she got my name some other way, but then id assume she'd also have my address and would want to come to my house, and this has not happened.
Seems like the situation i've stupidly put myself in though yes.
So if she's mars then, am i saturn ? even though the asc is mercury ? as im ruled by mars, so i thought i would be mars in 12th.
And with mars ruler being venus as you say in the "house of friends" wouldn't this make more sense to be his (moon) in 7th (his 1st) radical 5th =11th.
He needed to be taken away from me anyway at some point, so i'm glad it's happened sooner rather than later.