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thread Q: "If you just happen to run into a Magician type man, what can you possibly expect of such a relationship? What kind of woman would attract and fascinate him?"
simply put, IMO, he is a 'make it or break it' kind of guy
my s/o has coyote medicine, the tickster....just last week (1st, new, Origins deck) he did 3- 3 card readings, each time the 3rd card was the Magician. This was NOT due to poor shuffling.
but even before this, I called him Magician because of the Coyote med & his self-sabotaging nature, BUT....he is a creator, no project is started & left undone.....they are always start to finish....
VARIOUS QUOTES:
I think the woman able to live with a man like that, would have to be Empress her self.
She's my Soul/Personality card
Depends what you're looking for.
He'd make a great handy-man. Would never have to call in a plumber or an electrician again. Imagine all the money you'll save on bills.
Being an independent kind of guy, he'd probably leave you to be pretty independent yourself
YES! it does depend on what you're looking for & who YOU are.
my guy fixes stuff & builds stuff. He's a Jack of all trades & master of none- except COOKING....who else in the Majors would be a chef?
Idependent....the above statement rings SO true, but I attribute this to both of us being Capricorn......
The Magician is the guy with the $60 haircuts
he is AWFUL!!!!- no hair cuts for him, but he's got champagne taste, even before looking at a price tag
here's where we got the biggest kick
I'm married to a Magician--happily and successfully. If they're a little more conscientious, they can be faithful and even thoughtful.
me too, sorta (no 'rings')
I'm feeling pretty happy with this one & I think this is it.
You have to love seeing him in the spotlight--because that's where he'll be. Always. There's no stopping him from being the center of attention at parties. So you have a choice, be his partner in the spotlight (Queen of Wands), or be his partner behind the scenes helping him to secretly work the tricks (High Priestess).
His goal, make a movie (has a few written, but they are not 'quite right' for production yet) & take Hollywood by suprise (this was one of his Q's for the 3 card reading, magician in future position)
Many see me as the QoW, but I also have that Lunar aspect about me. He says he wants to put me behind the camera, says I have a good eye for it....together we have started a screenplay of a mysterious genere.
On the plus side, when you're alone together, he'll always entertain you.......You have to love hearing him talk. He'll dominate the conversation.
he never shuts-up!!!....I have to glare at him when he interupts, he listens VERY well after that
this is hitting the nail on the head
the Magician always gets star treatment at restaurants, always gets free drinks from bartenders.
male & female bartenders both give him freebies. Packed, reservations full resturaunt? wander in, sit at the bar, get a free drink & before they are 1/2 way finished, there's a table for two.
You can't be threatened by his flirtations--and he is going to flirt. He'll charm, woo, and befriend other women. But I don't think the Magician is always the kind of guy Diviner Guy describes--he can be faithful if you're his real partner, the one he relies on. But he's still going to have women sighing over him, coming back stage to see him, and try to seduce him. Pointless to get worked up about it.
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She can let him be the center of attraction, as she prefers knowledge to being on a stage. She wouldn’t be frightened by other women, as she’s way too smart for the usual jealousness. In my opinion they’re a most exciting and successful couple.
Again, ya' have to be the right partner. It's not his fault that he's a people magnet. I trust him fully! He is comitted to me as well.
To add to the nature of the magician in a relationship, sticky issues are communicated right away because he can't hold it in. This is wonderful
I think the Queen of Swords could be the Magicians true mate. I see her as a very independent, clever and attractive (but surely not the common model type) woman. She’d know her man and her sharp mind would attract him. And he’s the sort of man who’d be able to break the ice and bring forward the sensuous woman in her......SO true! I noticed him, but it was he who made the first move. He took a long time (weeks), he was unsure about a bartender (me), but when he did get me to talk with him, it was all over!
the most absurd, fortunate, synchronistic things happen to him.
sounds like how we met & the events leading up to it! On a fool-like whim, added to his nomadic ways (his soul/per is chariot) He happened to land here in my humble part of the world. He had prayed for 'me' (I wished for him right around the same time).....he asked that 'it to be made obvious' I blew the poor boys mind!!!! the 'signs' where so big.....LOL...I still giggle at the memory of him circle-pacing, trying to absorb what he had just found & experienced.