Enlightenment23
I think this is a cute little spread that will help you get a nice snapshot of what your crush is looking for in a mate. The more you know, the better your aim will be -- and you just might hit 'em right in the heart!
A Snapshot of Who They Are
This is a (general) personality trait that turns him/her off
This is a (general) personality trait that turns him/her on
What they do look for in a partner?
A Snapshot of How They See You
This is what they love about me.
This is what they dislike about me.
Their feelings for you.
Aiming Cupid’s Arrow
What are the obstacles to winning him/her over?
What can I do to overcome them?
What is your final advice in making this love fantasy a reality?
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A Snapshot of Who They Are
1.This is a (general) personality trait that turns him on: Knight of Wands
He wants a girl who is adventurous, sexually explorative, passionately alive, loves travelling, impulsive, adrenaline junkie -- and maybe someone who is athletic, sporty, and fit.
2.This is a (general) personality trait that turns him off 4 of Pentacles
He would be turned off by a girl who is a bit too possessive, clingy, conservative, closed-off, and greedy
3.What does he look for in a partner? 10 of Pentacles Rx
He is looking for a woman who is not looking to settle down, someone who is not looking for a long-term relationship -- a woman who understands that he's not going to put a ring on her finger
(I will say that this is very true of the person I'm reading for and is the main reason why I have given up on him.)
A Snapshot of How They See You
4. This is what he loves about me: Two of Cups
He sees me as a good friend, a confidante, someone he considers to be a good companion. He loves that we can see "eye to eye" on my different subjects.
5. This is what they dislike about me: Queen of Swords Reversed
I know he thinks I can be very unyielding. Once I've made up my mind about something, I'm sticking to it. And I am always right, he's always wrong. That's final.
6. His feelings for you: 4 of Swords
His feelings are withdrawn, non-existent, quieted, dead, aloof, detached
Aiming Cupid’s Arrow
7. What are the obstacles to winning him/her over? Ace of Wands
The passionate, hot, steamy, sexy chemistry between us just isn't there.
8.What can I do to overcome this obstacle? 7 of Cups
"Ha! Keep dreaming, Englightenment23!"
9.What is your final advice in making this love fantasy a reality? Emperor Reversed
"Well, if you want a childish boyman that doesn't want to commit, go 'head. But if you want someone a little bit more mature, redirect your cupid's arrow to someone else please! Abort!"
A Snapshot of Who They Are
This is a (general) personality trait that turns him/her off
This is a (general) personality trait that turns him/her on
What they do look for in a partner?
A Snapshot of How They See You
This is what they love about me.
This is what they dislike about me.
Their feelings for you.
Aiming Cupid’s Arrow
What are the obstacles to winning him/her over?
What can I do to overcome them?
What is your final advice in making this love fantasy a reality?
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Here's a sample spread
A Snapshot of Who They Are
1.This is a (general) personality trait that turns him on: Knight of Wands
He wants a girl who is adventurous, sexually explorative, passionately alive, loves travelling, impulsive, adrenaline junkie -- and maybe someone who is athletic, sporty, and fit.
2.This is a (general) personality trait that turns him off 4 of Pentacles
He would be turned off by a girl who is a bit too possessive, clingy, conservative, closed-off, and greedy
3.What does he look for in a partner? 10 of Pentacles Rx
He is looking for a woman who is not looking to settle down, someone who is not looking for a long-term relationship -- a woman who understands that he's not going to put a ring on her finger
(I will say that this is very true of the person I'm reading for and is the main reason why I have given up on him.)
A Snapshot of How They See You
4. This is what he loves about me: Two of Cups
He sees me as a good friend, a confidante, someone he considers to be a good companion. He loves that we can see "eye to eye" on my different subjects.
5. This is what they dislike about me: Queen of Swords Reversed
I know he thinks I can be very unyielding. Once I've made up my mind about something, I'm sticking to it. And I am always right, he's always wrong. That's final.
6. His feelings for you: 4 of Swords
His feelings are withdrawn, non-existent, quieted, dead, aloof, detached
Aiming Cupid’s Arrow
7. What are the obstacles to winning him/her over? Ace of Wands
The passionate, hot, steamy, sexy chemistry between us just isn't there.
8.What can I do to overcome this obstacle? 7 of Cups
"Ha! Keep dreaming, Englightenment23!"
9.What is your final advice in making this love fantasy a reality? Emperor Reversed
"Well, if you want a childish boyman that doesn't want to commit, go 'head. But if you want someone a little bit more mature, redirect your cupid's arrow to someone else please! Abort!"
Thank you for sharing!
