Re: IMO its gotta be a Fire Sign
imagoddess said:
Aries, these guys are all about me, me....They do settle down eventually, but I have never met one yet, who has gotten married before the age 40.
My brother, an April 3rd Aries, married his high school sweetheart at age 21. Now, at nearly 43, they're still together... very happily! He is a "me, me, me!" crybaby however
. Yup, it's all about Billy.... (grrr!!) Also, my most recent boyfriend is an Aries. He came on soooo strong in the beginning and as soon as I gave in he sort of petered out. Now that we've been separated for a few months, he's trying to charm me again Well, okay, I'll admit, the Ram succeeded, using a Valentine's Day as a lure. I've learned that if not on a ball field or race track, Aries plays games of the heart like a pro.
When figuring my character bio, I began to look back at my own encounters, astrologically.
A Capricorn guy I dated in France was very posessive, demanding and impatient but I NEVER paid for anything. I felt like a trinket of a sort. I got on the earliest train to Barcelona one morning to butt this Goat out of my life.
A Cancer I dated briefly just wanted to cuddle and give me backrubs. Although a fairly big guy, he was soft-spoken and quite gregarious. I think this guy and I would have stuck around for a while if he didn't live in Chicago!
I had an on-and-off relationship with a Libra. Talk about a player! Libras as a general rule do need to be in some sort of partnership, but this one partnered with too many for my taste. And with Libras, I think its the indecisiveness that delays them in finding a solid partner, thinking the grass may be greener somewhere else. His diplomacy always comes in handy, though, when juggling a few girls. We're the best of friends now and I can tease him about it. And I NEVER miss a chance for that.
Although I'm a Cap, I was totally bored with a Taurus dude... we were too much alike and as sensuous as he was there was no spark there. But he was very sweet.
So, I've always ended up in a relationship with a fire sign, perhaps they balance the fire I'm lacking in my chart. Sure its tough at times, but being a goal-oriented Cap I think they provide me with the challenge I crave. If something's too easy, I shun it.
All in all, I think my character is going to be a Pisces. The couple I've dated were very romantic yet quite manipulative. They seemed to use their Twelfth house mystic and intuition to read my mind to lure me into their lairs. In both cases I was too wise to their schemes and got away from these slippery fish
However, a very good friend of mine is a Pisces and he was a very faithful and attentive partner to his long-term girlfriend. A key trait in my character is that he has to be interested in astrology and Pisces I feel fits this.
Thank you all for your ideas. This has really been a fun thread, hasn't it?