CaliforniaVirgo
I think it has more to do with trust.
Back to look at the Strength card Reversed - control, influence, manipulation issues. The 'Not to be involved' could point to more a relationship which is a long-term based on friendship. Im not talking friendship with benefits - Im talking about a little piece of space in a serious relationship for her to get comfortable with while the relationship is developing. Maybe its the sheer confusions of how to achieve the balance of give and take, and to find that person.
I have more thoughts about the card, but they seem to be drifting into other areas away from the question and not relevant, so I'll leave it there
Hmm...you may be correct, but my knowing her so well doesn't seem to see it that way. Only because she wants everything so quick...she's 38 and wants babies so she doesn't really want to take things slow, if you know what i mean...but perhaps she needs to. Thanks you for your input!