Aoife
Umbrae said:Then please reflect more.
DIFU is not an alien. it is not external. It is not parasitical. It's not possession.
DIFU is a part of us.
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So why do we treat it as a separate entity?
Because it allows us to pinpoint the ‘symptoms’ and the methodology of escaping its clutches.
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Although DIFU is NOT an outside ‘influence’, it is treated that way in order to gain power over it.
“Oh it’s simply a part of you” gives its voice authority.
And THAT is part of the problem.
Yes, indeed... although I still struggle with the idea of power in this context. I think one of the risks of demonising an aspect of ourselves is that we can lose sight of its inherent value in the balancing act that is our passage through life. I accept that the DIFU can become so debilitating to be life-limiting, but that degree of dysfunction may need some kind of professional intervention. But for most of us its more akin to a dodgy leg... debilitating for sure, but it forces us to explore other strategies for coping and progressing. Sometimes it aches more than others, giving clues to those circumstances or behaviours that cause us discomfort. It challenges us to take responsibility, to prioritise and establish 'what really matters'.
But I think the issue of DIFU is different, or compounded, when the purpose of our 'doing' is primarily intended to be for the benefit of others - such a reading tarot. I'm out of time now, but will try to return to this.