You could look at it from an Ascendant perspective. You have a conjunction to Aldebran and an opposition to Antares.
Oh yes there is the opposition aspect too, i never thought of this.
Incidentally, CosmicBeing's point was my initial reaction too. But thinking about it. The major point is the Ascendant and it has two fixed star aspects. one a conjunction, one an opposition. Or you could take the conjuntion of Antares with the Descendant as applying to him, not you. He, after all, is the person signified by the Descendant.
I can understand the Antares more in regards to applying to me and not him, even though its on his 1st house. As we've already ended and its me who's trying to get hold of him .....well i suppose actually it could also be applying to him, as the charts etc have been showing him in turmoil as of what to do, so maybe he has just decided now not to bother so maybe this could be how it applies to him.
BUT then its still the Aldebaran on my Asc that is still a baffle in regards to a fresh start, im sure this would apply to me being on my Asc. So is this fresh start to just leave him be and that's it now.
This is what i'm thinking it is anyway....but then if so, its really annoying because why have i even been made aware of all this stuff with him. Somebody up there wanted me to know how he was feeling etc by putting it in my head to do a chart and see what i seen, but then i'm not allowed to even see him.....it just doesn't make sense all this.
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Ive come to the conclusion now that the fixed stars on either end being what they are, are saying i might aswell just give up on trying to get hold of him (antares dc) as there will be no new beginning between us (aldebaran asc) both being in opposition.
Its annoying though, as like i said what was the point in me even knowing all this in the 1st place if im not even going to get the chance to speak to him.....so we could have either both let go properly, or try again.
Ive always believed that everything happens for a reason, but now i not too sure.