obsidian_queen
Alone vs lonely...
I agree with the remaining single and happy part. The independent nature of the 9 of pents is what connects with the Hermit here; the person is happy with their stuff, and absolutely fine with being alone for the time being. They are happy with being in their own space without the need to share it with anybody (though they wouldn't necessarily mind it) and they're happy because everything they've got they achieved for themselves. I feel this card, if you're single and LOOKING means you find someone when you're NOT looking, and usually when you're content with the way your life is that's EXACTLY when someone else comes along. The message is mainly that you should go into a relationship as a whole person, and not be searching for someone else to "complete" you..that way there's a healthy relationship in store for you where you can still have that personal space that is just for you and there is no need to give up yourself for someone else.
lilpeanut said:I am curious about the 9 of Pentacles as an outcome of a relationship when you are single too! I am never sure...
Does it mean you will remain single yet happy and soon the next man will be the one? (9's meaning almost there)
I agree with the remaining single and happy part. The independent nature of the 9 of pents is what connects with the Hermit here; the person is happy with their stuff, and absolutely fine with being alone for the time being. They are happy with being in their own space without the need to share it with anybody (though they wouldn't necessarily mind it) and they're happy because everything they've got they achieved for themselves. I feel this card, if you're single and LOOKING means you find someone when you're NOT looking, and usually when you're content with the way your life is that's EXACTLY when someone else comes along. The message is mainly that you should go into a relationship as a whole person, and not be searching for someone else to "complete" you..that way there's a healthy relationship in store for you where you can still have that personal space that is just for you and there is no need to give up yourself for someone else.