Minderwiz
And I have definitely grasped early on that size of orbs used varies quite a lot from one astrologer to the next. I'm leaning right now toward maybe using narrower orbs, simply in self-defense! As an illustration of why I'd say that, when I run my own chart on Cafe Astrology, taking into consideration only the ten major planets and the Ascendant and Midheaven, and focusing only on the five major aspects (conjunction, opposition, square, trine, and sextile) that can occur among them...the program flags 21 such aspects. That's a lot for me to try to digest all at once! And then if I go over to Astro.com and use the same set of parameters...they apparently use even wider orbs, yielding no less than 27 aspects for me to consider, now including a T-Square and a Grand Trine! For now, until I get more interpretive experience under my belt, I'm feeling like less might be more...
I can well remember the feeling
Try breaking it down into manageable chunks. You could concentrate on, say Sun Moon and Ascendant (including planets in aspect) and then add in the remaining planets bit by bit. Alternatively go house by house and leave any integration to the end. Or start with angular planets.
Trying to deal with everything at once is a recipe for brain meltdown.
Eventually you'll find that you can handle more info at each stage