Enlightenment23
As many others have said, yes something does end. Death is about endings, but people tend to tack on "transformation" to the card because one of the symptoms of endings is change.
BUT the ending doesn't have to be the relationship!
I've pulled the Death card for my cousin who was becoming a father for the first time in his life. He could no longer be the old guy he once was - partying, drugs, never coming home, not having money. He knew would have to completely change his ways to become the best father he could be for his daughter.
The relationship didn't end, but his old ways did. And also his perspective changed. And as a result of that, things changed.
Non-romance related, I've seen the Death card pop up when I've invested so much time into an idea for a project, and I realize it just doesn't work. I had to scrap it, delete everything, and start all over with something new.
So Death is about endings - whether they're good or bad. I think that's the biggest concern here for you. You are unclear whether whatever ending is looming your way for this relationship is positive or negative. I'd pull a clarifier to figure out what change is expected.
BUT the ending doesn't have to be the relationship!
I've pulled the Death card for my cousin who was becoming a father for the first time in his life. He could no longer be the old guy he once was - partying, drugs, never coming home, not having money. He knew would have to completely change his ways to become the best father he could be for his daughter.
The relationship didn't end, but his old ways did. And also his perspective changed. And as a result of that, things changed.
Non-romance related, I've seen the Death card pop up when I've invested so much time into an idea for a project, and I realize it just doesn't work. I had to scrap it, delete everything, and start all over with something new.
So Death is about endings - whether they're good or bad. I think that's the biggest concern here for you. You are unclear whether whatever ending is looming your way for this relationship is positive or negative. I'd pull a clarifier to figure out what change is expected.