Chiriku
Need suggestions...
An unpleasant event recently occurred in my life. Someone I cared for (X) accused me of being behind an online persona (C2) that was harming X. As a result, my relationship with X ended under dramatic and painful (for me circumstances.
I have no way of ever knowing for sure, but both I and all with whom I've discussed this situation suspect that X themself orchestrated everything, most likely as a way to end the relationship with me (i.e. we believe that X was the person behind the persona of C2; that X created the persona to pin the blame on me and give X an excuse for leaving the relationship).
I am composing a spread to help provide me with the closure X has denied me in disappearing from the Internet (including erasing years of prior presence in an online community we were both members of before we started interacting).
I can't figure out how to go about composing it because I don't know for 100% sure that X did this, and also because I don't want to assign motivations to either X or any third party who might really exist out there.
I also have a few theories about WHY X would have wanted to end the relationship, but again, I don't want to assign motivations that would limit the answers I might get.
I was thinking of creating two alternate spreads and pulling one card to help me determine which spread to go with.
Third Party as C2 ............. ........... v. ............................ X as C2
****1****................. ..............................................*******1******
****2*** ....................................................................**2*****3***
**3*4**5***.................................................................**4**5**6**
.....................................................................................**7*****8***
1- If there was really a third party who was C2, why X did not believe in my innocence
2- Why X erased all traces of their presence
3- What X thought of me before the "explosion" (emergence of C2 that ended r'ship)
4- What X thinks of me now
5- What X will remember or learn from the relationship with me
1- If X created C2, why X did so
2- What X thought of me over the course of the relationship
3- Why X erased all traces of their presence
4- What X thought of me at the point that X created C2
5- Why X chose to act with cruelty towards me (as opposed to 'letting me down easy')
6- How X feels about themself now, after what X has done
7- How X feels about me now
8- What X will ultimately learn from the relationship with me
Something still feels "off" with this concept.
And I don't know what exactly I will glean from the initial card I pull that will help me decide whether there was a real third party involved, or whether X was C2 all along.
Sure, if I pull The Devil, that pretty easily points to X (for reasons that also have to do with X's personality). But what if I pull something like the 7 of Pents, for instance? That doesn't really offer any clarity as to "Whodunnit."
Suggestions?
Thanks.
An unpleasant event recently occurred in my life. Someone I cared for (X) accused me of being behind an online persona (C2) that was harming X. As a result, my relationship with X ended under dramatic and painful (for me circumstances.
I have no way of ever knowing for sure, but both I and all with whom I've discussed this situation suspect that X themself orchestrated everything, most likely as a way to end the relationship with me (i.e. we believe that X was the person behind the persona of C2; that X created the persona to pin the blame on me and give X an excuse for leaving the relationship).
I am composing a spread to help provide me with the closure X has denied me in disappearing from the Internet (including erasing years of prior presence in an online community we were both members of before we started interacting).
I can't figure out how to go about composing it because I don't know for 100% sure that X did this, and also because I don't want to assign motivations to either X or any third party who might really exist out there.
I also have a few theories about WHY X would have wanted to end the relationship, but again, I don't want to assign motivations that would limit the answers I might get.
I was thinking of creating two alternate spreads and pulling one card to help me determine which spread to go with.
Third Party as C2 ............. ........... v. ............................ X as C2
****1****................. ..............................................*******1******
****2*** ....................................................................**2*****3***
**3*4**5***.................................................................**4**5**6**
.....................................................................................**7*****8***
1- If there was really a third party who was C2, why X did not believe in my innocence
2- Why X erased all traces of their presence
3- What X thought of me before the "explosion" (emergence of C2 that ended r'ship)
4- What X thinks of me now
5- What X will remember or learn from the relationship with me
1- If X created C2, why X did so
2- What X thought of me over the course of the relationship
3- Why X erased all traces of their presence
4- What X thought of me at the point that X created C2
5- Why X chose to act with cruelty towards me (as opposed to 'letting me down easy')
6- How X feels about themself now, after what X has done
7- How X feels about me now
8- What X will ultimately learn from the relationship with me
Something still feels "off" with this concept.
And I don't know what exactly I will glean from the initial card I pull that will help me decide whether there was a real third party involved, or whether X was C2 all along.
Sure, if I pull The Devil, that pretty easily points to X (for reasons that also have to do with X's personality). But what if I pull something like the 7 of Pents, for instance? That doesn't really offer any clarity as to "Whodunnit."
Suggestions?
Thanks.