Lilija
I like the last rendition, it looks like the cleanest, and simplest. Since I'm a "card one in the center" kind of girl, normally, I might be tempted to swap the 1, 2, 3 column for the 4, 5, 6 column.
I am now wishing I hadn't used this spread already, when it was raw, I bet it would come out a lot better, in this format, heh. Ah well, into my spread book it goes, maybe it'll help other people. Maybe something like this will come up for me soon.
Glass Owl, I liked reading your list of what it showed you. I too, was shaken up by my results, but for a different way. Mine looked more like this:
1. You're offering to help based on a facade.
2. She's perfectly happy, deep down, and doesn't need your help.
3. You wouldn't even know where to start, anyway.
4. Just shut your mouth, and go along with her act, it's better for everyone.
Don't worry, the whole facade thing isn't harming anyone, it's just a friend trying (quite successfully) to fit into a socially acceptable picture, which isn't really the deep-down truth. Apparently, she's fine with it.
I am now wishing I hadn't used this spread already, when it was raw, I bet it would come out a lot better, in this format, heh. Ah well, into my spread book it goes, maybe it'll help other people. Maybe something like this will come up for me soon.
Glass Owl, I liked reading your list of what it showed you. I too, was shaken up by my results, but for a different way. Mine looked more like this:
1. You're offering to help based on a facade.
2. She's perfectly happy, deep down, and doesn't need your help.
3. You wouldn't even know where to start, anyway.
4. Just shut your mouth, and go along with her act, it's better for everyone.
Don't worry, the whole facade thing isn't harming anyone, it's just a friend trying (quite successfully) to fit into a socially acceptable picture, which isn't really the deep-down truth. Apparently, she's fine with it.