Sophie
You can't change an outcome that depends entirely on other people, outside events, God/ess. You can influence it if it depends partially on you - but not always enough to change it entirely. You can only change yourself and your actions. That is the limit of human freedom - but many of us don't exercise it anyway.
Let's say I predict that your boss will turn out to be a crook, and this will have some negative effect on you.
What do you do with that prediction?
- "oh rubbish, it'll all turn out ok" and half forget about it?
- "hmm, better keep an eye open, look at the accounts if I can"
- "whoa! I'm out of there. I'm resigning tomorrow!"
Now it is 6 months later and the boss has just been arrested for mass embezzlement and the police has got his close colleagues under suspicion.
Where are you? Which decision did you take? Which was the way in which YOU changed the outcome?
This is a real-case scenario, btw. I shall give you what the querent decided later, after I read a few replies.
Let's say I predict that your boss will turn out to be a crook, and this will have some negative effect on you.
What do you do with that prediction?
- "oh rubbish, it'll all turn out ok" and half forget about it?
- "hmm, better keep an eye open, look at the accounts if I can"
- "whoa! I'm out of there. I'm resigning tomorrow!"
Now it is 6 months later and the boss has just been arrested for mass embezzlement and the police has got his close colleagues under suspicion.
Where are you? Which decision did you take? Which was the way in which YOU changed the outcome?
This is a real-case scenario, btw. I shall give you what the querent decided later, after I read a few replies.