You don't need Tarot at all to do this; I talk to my dead grandmother all the time (it`s a one-sided conversation, she doesn't seem to have a lot to say these days) but Tarot could be a way of having a two-way conversation, albeit a limited one. Try it, there`s nothing to lose.
great answer, closrapexa!
Louise what a great thread! l had never thought of doing a spread for those who have gone before us.
Judging by all the replies here it seems to work so l will definitely give this a try. Often l talk to my loved ones and hope they hear me, this will allow me hopefully to have a two- way converation. l am really looking forward to communicating.
Oh my, yes, it does work. trust me!
I am a psychic-medium, and after I do a reading for a client on one of their deceasead loved ones, I always tell them how to communicate with their loved ones on the other side. I can't stress this enough--Your loved ones are ALWAYS with you. You may not realize this, because you don't know how to 'sense' them. But, trust me, they are with you. They don't stop loving you because they have moved on. They want you to know they are with you and they love you and they want to help you and can in most things even if they are in the light.
Talking to them is a great way to start a conversation with them. Then, be aware of things. You may smell your grandmothers favorite perfume, or your father's cigarette smoking, even though you have neither in your home. Perhaps you'll begin to get little gifts, (my dad for a long time was leaving quarters around outside - especially right at my doorstep. I'd come home from shopping and on my way into the house, I'd see this quarter clearly at the door--though it was not there when I left).
We have pictures hanging and sitting out all through our home of our loved ones, both living and deceased. We talk to them frequently-especially every time I dust the house. As I past by their pictures, I talk to them as if they were in the room with me. I tell them about my day and what is going on in the lives of our loved ones. I ask for their help when I need it. I will often go right to a picture of them and ask them directly to help me. Then, I pay attention, as help will most likely come.
My mother once asked her deceased parents for help in a situation involving my sister. It was a dire time in my sisters life, and we were all so frantic for her. My mother soon got her answer, while cleaning her house. She opened her bedroom door to vacuum there and right on the floor of her bedroom was her mothers prayer book with a note that had apparently fallen out of the book, written in my grandmothers hand. It had at the top, "A prayer never found to fail" and then a short 4 line prayer. Mom instantly c. each of us kids to make us write down this prayer, and told us to say it many times a day, (which we all did), for my sister. Our prayers were answered, and my sister made out okay and mom (and pretty much all of us in the family) know it was due to the intervention of our deceased loving grandmother.
That prayer book had not been open probably since my gm death decades earlier-and mom kept it inside a shoe box that was also tucked inside a desk drawer, with lots of other things that had belonged to gm.
So, that is just one story of how our loved ones communicate to us. Not all of them will put their books or anything out for you to find--but just be aware. They will send you signs that they are around. Talk to them and wait.
If you are in a hurry though, and can't wait--use a tool to talk to them immediately. tarot cards are only one such tool. Meditation another and of course many more too. Remember also that you don't need to use a spread. You can just ask a question and lay out a few cards or one. It'll work.