I need a spread!

I am having issues understanding why a particular person is acting a certain way! I dont know what to do or really what to ask the tarot! I guess I could ask about his intentions, why he is acting the way he is and what I can do to help him understand me better? IDK! Any suggestions?

Whenever I have a question that I don't really now what spread to use i use one of either of these two all purpose spreads.

First I have the all purpose spread which I explained in this thread http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=143071


My second all purpose spread is called the Golden Star spread.

----5----
-3-----4-
----s----
--1--2---

Reveal the cards in this order
S.This is the significator card and represents you. (no significator deck is necessary)
1.The present
2.Known desires
3.hidden factors
4.possible obsticles or attitudes
5.The outcome

Please tell me how this thread works for you, please.

Stregaverde's Pesky Problem Person Spread

Apollonia's What are their motives spread - click here to read the whole thread

The Tude Spread

Metafizzypop's Spread for an unbearable boss - works on other people, not just bosses

pozt's problem solving Spread


LadyBlackRose's What You Know Spread
1**2**3
1: What you know.
2: What you don’t know.
3: What you need to know.

I did The Stregaverdes Pesky Problem spread and I got 1.Empress 2.Magician3.Page of cups4.H.Priestess5.4 of wands6.The Star7.the fool8.The sun

This guy is a friend of mine that I really want to be with but I cant at the moment as i am getting out of a relationship. Lately he has been short with me and I dont know why. So I did this spread. Overall they are pretty positive cards so IDK?