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I am looking to do another big spread (I typically do three-card ones) and would like feedback on which one to use, I have not had as good results when I just make up my own thing So I'd like to find a good established spread to use.
I have several 'big issues' playing out right now, and I thought about doing separate readings since they are not technically related to each other. But I have been thinking that since the interplay between them might be relevant since they are all in big areas of my life, a single 'state of the union' type spread where I can see the big picture might be useful.
The broad strokes of the issues are:
1) My job. I was offered a one-year contract by my current boss that she has told me she will not renew. I was at first devastated, but I am trying to re-frame this in my mind as a positive thing. I can gain some experience in a slightly different role this year, which will be useful to me when I leave, and I have time to network and make some connections to move me onto the next thing. I would like to know how this will go. Will my next job be a good one? Will I have an okay experience going back there for one more year? Am I on a good path right now for my career, generally?
2) My job, part 2. In an effort to improve my job chances, I am taking driving lessons. I have a lot of anxieties about this. Will I do well? Will I learn to feel confident? Will I be safe in the car? Will my loved ones be safe in the car? General 'how is the driving going to go' question.
3) My family life. I am getting married in October, and it has been a little stressful. Is it going to go all right? Will we enjoy it, even? Will we survive it without anyone fighting or getting upset with each other? Might it, dare I hope, improve some of the relationships involved? General 'how is the wedding going to go' question.
4) Family life, part 2. This is the baby question We have been seeing a doctor for this. Will it happen naturally or will we need interventions? Will it happen this year, which would be perfect, timing-wise, given my job situation? When it does happen, will it go well, will I be healthy, will baby etc?
So...am I crazy to try and put all of this into one spread? What question do I ask? What layout do I use? Any tips for getting started?
I have several 'big issues' playing out right now, and I thought about doing separate readings since they are not technically related to each other. But I have been thinking that since the interplay between them might be relevant since they are all in big areas of my life, a single 'state of the union' type spread where I can see the big picture might be useful.
The broad strokes of the issues are:
1) My job. I was offered a one-year contract by my current boss that she has told me she will not renew. I was at first devastated, but I am trying to re-frame this in my mind as a positive thing. I can gain some experience in a slightly different role this year, which will be useful to me when I leave, and I have time to network and make some connections to move me onto the next thing. I would like to know how this will go. Will my next job be a good one? Will I have an okay experience going back there for one more year? Am I on a good path right now for my career, generally?
2) My job, part 2. In an effort to improve my job chances, I am taking driving lessons. I have a lot of anxieties about this. Will I do well? Will I learn to feel confident? Will I be safe in the car? Will my loved ones be safe in the car? General 'how is the driving going to go' question.
3) My family life. I am getting married in October, and it has been a little stressful. Is it going to go all right? Will we enjoy it, even? Will we survive it without anyone fighting or getting upset with each other? Might it, dare I hope, improve some of the relationships involved? General 'how is the wedding going to go' question.
4) Family life, part 2. This is the baby question We have been seeing a doctor for this. Will it happen naturally or will we need interventions? Will it happen this year, which would be perfect, timing-wise, given my job situation? When it does happen, will it go well, will I be healthy, will baby etc?
So...am I crazy to try and put all of this into one spread? What question do I ask? What layout do I use? Any tips for getting started?