Intotouch
I think that the Tower in this reading both refers to the "aftershocks" as one person put it and that this is still a disastrous relationship. The 10 of wands suggests one person making all the effort to carry this forward, but the other none at all. Which coupled with the Tower is I think the tarot's way of saying "drop the burden". Walk away. Which you may well be doing anyway in which case I think that this is describing your present. You can of course continue to try to carry this relationship forward or you can drop it. The 10 may also refer to the baggage that you're carrying from this relationship. Do you still have questions that you want to ask him or anger to express to him? If so consider that this is weighing you down on your path going forward. What would it be like for you to drop this load? What would change for you if you did?