RainatDayBreak
I know there have been numerous threads on this subject so I apologize for bringing it up again, but there are unique aspects to my situation I'd like your thoughts on.
Some quick background to make sense of the situation:
For a long time I've been in love with a man who is a soulmate. For various reasons, we are not and cannot be together. Over time, he has come to be represented by the KoP. For a long time I waited for him and didn't date anyone else. Then a few weeks ago, I got the distinct impression that the universe wanted me to date this other guy. Suspecting that one of my life lessons is to not waste my life waiting for my beloved, I started dating again, starting with the guy the universe threw at me (we will call this guy E).
I am polyamorous (before I became crazy for my KoP and decided to be celibate, haha). Several months ago, E and I had a conversation in which he told me he's exploring polyamory and that he thinks he wants to be poly. So we are starting in this context (i.e., that we're both poly). Around the same time I also started dating B. Both B and E know about KoP. B knows more because that's the nature of our relationship--we over share.
Now the KoP keeps showing up in just about every reading I or others have done about E but not B. It's confusing and I don't understand why.
Could it be bc E can't get over what I told him about the KoP guy? I told him, on our first date, that I was in love with this other guy and tried to explain how hard it's been, which was why I needed time before I could have sex with him. That was literally the context in which I brought it up. Obviously not the best timing.
The reason I think this is bc the card only comes up in readings involving E and not readings on other subjects or about other people. I know the information about the KoP guy doesn't bother B bc B is more experienced with poly and understands that just bc someone is in love with someone else doesn't mean they can't also be in love with you.
Some quick background to make sense of the situation:
For a long time I've been in love with a man who is a soulmate. For various reasons, we are not and cannot be together. Over time, he has come to be represented by the KoP. For a long time I waited for him and didn't date anyone else. Then a few weeks ago, I got the distinct impression that the universe wanted me to date this other guy. Suspecting that one of my life lessons is to not waste my life waiting for my beloved, I started dating again, starting with the guy the universe threw at me (we will call this guy E).
I am polyamorous (before I became crazy for my KoP and decided to be celibate, haha). Several months ago, E and I had a conversation in which he told me he's exploring polyamory and that he thinks he wants to be poly. So we are starting in this context (i.e., that we're both poly). Around the same time I also started dating B. Both B and E know about KoP. B knows more because that's the nature of our relationship--we over share.
Now the KoP keeps showing up in just about every reading I or others have done about E but not B. It's confusing and I don't understand why.
Could it be bc E can't get over what I told him about the KoP guy? I told him, on our first date, that I was in love with this other guy and tried to explain how hard it's been, which was why I needed time before I could have sex with him. That was literally the context in which I brought it up. Obviously not the best timing.
The reason I think this is bc the card only comes up in readings involving E and not readings on other subjects or about other people. I know the information about the KoP guy doesn't bother B bc B is more experienced with poly and understands that just bc someone is in love with someone else doesn't mean they can't also be in love with you.