niki frm india said:
i am sorry i am a little confused here,by first candidate you mean to say that whoever i first meet or consider after today or the first candidate i have met..?????i have already seen quite a few guys in the past months..but nobody i found suitable enough to be my"husband"...
As Bee points out above, the Horary reading relates to the current and future situation, not the past, so here 'first candidate' is the one that you are either currently considering or, if there isn't someone currently being considered, then the next one that you look at during the period of the horary. Horaries can give information about the past, to provide some additional context but the purpose is to deal with present or future decisions.
niki frm india said:
so according to you what does this mean..a love marriage..???but i dont have anybody around me for that..
I think it means that you expect that the person who emerges from the selection process is someone that you can have a good romantic relationship with - I don't see any necessary contradiction between an arranged marriage process and love between the two people, involved.
As you say later on, you want to be happy in your marriage and I think this is an indication of that.
niki frm india said:
i can only say anything once my cofusion is clear..i hope you dont mind..sorry
My impression here is that on first sight his family appear to be just the sort of people that your parents like - there is a compatibility between the two families, enough to get the process started. He is certainly impressed by your family but the attraction seems to be to your family, rather than to you personally. Now that might be normal, within the early stages of this process, so please forgive me if I'm stating the obvious but within the context of Western culture I'd expect positive receptions between your significator and his. I also need to remember my own warning, the chart has early degrees rising and so it may be premature to draw fixed conclusions from it.
I also don't want to over dramatise the issues - the 'hidden' or 'secret' may well be something that doesn't show up till you meet but is then obvious and it doesn't have to be anything terrible, just enough to put you off him - such as bad breath, or some mannerism that you don't like, or his views on certain topics.
I've kept to 'him' and 'he' which is singular, but I realise there may be more than one under consideration during this period. If so then I don't see any of them as being suitable, in your view.
A couple of general points to conclude:
Firstly, I'm using a traditional approach but it is firmly in the Western tradition, and uses the tropical zodiac. I'm not sure how it would work in Jyotish Astrology, but you need to be aware that the two traditions do have significant differences, as well as common features. The main difference here would be that the Ascendant and planetary positions would be shifted back some 24 degrees, which would have given a different Ascendant sign and different significators. So if you asked a local Astrologer for a second opinion, you'd get a different chart for the same place and time.
Secondly, I can't stress enough that the early Ascendant casts doubt on the reliability of the chart. It could well be a false alarm but as the message seems to be 'take care in the process' then I think that message is worth stating - though I have little doubt that you would do just that anyway.
Please feel free to ask any follow up questions by pm.