I believe that the universe cuts beginners a little slack, if they carefully choose their first rituals and spells.
A friend did a little ritual a few nights ago. She was terrified of her meeting with the dean of her college the next day. She was self soothing more than asking for anything. She is a real drama queen. I think the universe found her adorable. I warned her a few times to reign it in, because she was starting to toe some lines that I don't think she meant to cross. I think in attempting to formulate a request, she realized she didn't really have one
I don't think the universe could have possibly done anything but laugh at her.
I've read a lot of books. I don't have the opportunity to meet with others so far, except online. I stick my toe in, and attempt a bit, so I can go back and read again with more understanding, and formulate better questions at a forum. I don't know how else to approach this right now, other than not approach it at all. I don't think that is the answer.
When I did my food stamps ritual I was lucky that the moon was waxing and that the day of the week was appropriate. I realized that afterward. It's a shame the tarot spell books don't place any importance on that. I find it helpful to read a regular spell book as well as the tarot spells books on a subject.
I still haven't made any headway in planning my "get into proper therapy" spell. I really want to include my new Tarot of Transformation, and I wanted to trim it first. I just finished that late last night. Unfortunately the moon stops waxing today :-( So maybe I should turn this into a 2 part spell and leave any attraction/growth aspects till after the new moon, and concentrate on what I want to lessen?