Barleywine what you said was spot on! We are completely compatible physically and we have a blast every time we hang out. But when it comes to the direction of the relationship, we need to discuss things by phone calls or emails or we will end up getting very physical and not solving anything.Because of their binary nature, all of the Twos are about polarity - two extremes that ideally converge at a point of balance in the center; this implies the compromise that is at the root of all successful relationships. The 2 of Pentacles adds something new to the "straight-line" model of interaction: rotational motion around opposite poles that creates the centripetal force (think "gravity") holding the two polar opposites in stable orbit around one another; it turns the "mad dash" for fulfillment into a more substantial and mutually rewarding cooperation.
This suggests to me that, as the positive following a break-up, there would still be physical attraction between the parties to the failed relationship, despite the distance that has grown between them.
I was trying to find the positive side of it because the card is on the positive aspects.Hmm, you may be trying to read more into the 2 of Pentacles as a "positive remainder" than is there: it's a pretty simple card of steady-state physicality. It has been called "Stability through Change," like the idea of a spinning top that runs smoothly until its momentum runs down and it begins to wobble and then falls over. If one of the best parts of the relationship was its physical stability and security, while that may have been overshadowed by other dissonances that ultimately caused the break-up, that residual sense of satisfaction may still linger on (in one if not both of you).
ETA: Oops, it looks like you may have been responding to someone else. I withdraw my observation.
Hi guys I have a question, what if the 2 of pentacles represented the positive aspects after a break up?
The question was about reconciliation...
