faery magic?
This deck of cards has a way (if you let it) to help you see yourself in a very realistic way. It can help you heal what is hurting, exceed in your interests, and inspire you. I've read tarot for 10 yrs prior to getting this deck, and no deck has ever been so active and so communicative with me.
I agree with Alissa, as long as you seek truth, then it doesn't really matter what deck you use, it's a matter of what you feel you communicate, or relate to the closest.
I didn't know it when I first got this deck, how interactive it was, nor how well we worked together. I'm actually on my second deck (as my first bit it hard when I was at a party. Someone spilled an entire beer on my purse and didn't tell me. I didn't find out until long after it was too late, and the cards were warped, the paper seperating itself, the damage was unrepairable). Through using this deck, I've been able to improve my life considerably and help counsel many others in the past. It's also helped me expand my abilities, as well as artistic talents and intersts.
My advice as far as how to connect with this deck (aside what the book offers) is to play with it. Do daily one card reads, or once a month three (or full) card readings. When you have the time, pull them out and just randomly pick one, two or 5 cards to look at and ponder, or perhaps meditate on. Look at what the faeries are doing in the card and try to figure out "why" or for what purpose, here is often where I find the message the faery has for me. Some are playful, some are guiding, some are healing, and some are scary. But all of them have an important role, and important messages. In the book there is a set of questions that you can ask yourself while doing the daily reads. Keep a journal and write down what you see and feel, how it relates, or perhaps it doesn't "relate" at all, but the message is helpful in some way. Go back over what you wrote a few days later and see if it really did relate in some way or another that you didn't see at the time.
I know you don't "believe" in them persay, but I've also found out that some faeries (in my daily draws) come out, not as advice or relation to the day, but just to show me their hangin out with me that day. Sometimes I will feel a bit "bodacious", or a little "Mickle a Muckle", I also have my "slooooowwww" days, and my "rarr" days (too much energy). Some days I'm sad, and Gloominous Doom will show up to tell me that he understands and he's with me, other times, a faery with some advice will show up, or perhaps the Green lady will rise to the top just to make me smile. This deck has no one answer, or "one way", nor "one message for each card". It's really all up to how you interpret that faery, and how it relates, or what you feel and see in the card. They show you your own symbolisms (Inner truths) about yourself, it just takes some time and playing with them to understand them.
I hope this helps a little bit. Please let us know how it's going, or perhaps you could do some practice readings in the oracle section with this deck, just to get in some practice with them. As we all know how hard it is to read for thyself.
Sagitarian