The Tude Spread

Glass Owl

The Tude Spread (6) by Glass Owl

For when someone cops an attitude and you want to better understand why.

It is in the shape of a "T" for Tude :)

4-5-6
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1. The person in question (X)/The core issue
2. What is feeding this attitude
3. What is underneath the surface (the foundation)
4. How X's behavior is impacting the relationship
5. How the querant's behavior is impacting the relationship
6. Advice for dealing with X
 

olivia1

Great spread. I tried this out (with another spread someone suggested to me) in regards to someone who's attitude is really puzzling me. It gave me a lot of answers. Thanks for sharing :)
 

SekhemNefer

this seems like an awesome spread. Much needed.
 

blueviolet

I just tried it -- it worked out great -- made sense to me. Thanks for sharing it! Cute name :)
 

SekhemNefer

Yes, I tried this too. It is on point.
 

Yasmina_Libelula

Thank you

Your spread worked wonderfully. I was able to gain much needed insight into my relationship with my mother-in-law. Kudos!
 

Redstar

This is a great spread, thank you!