Ace of Swords as an end to a relationship - a sudden, cutting end. Usually non negotiable.
Death/Tower/3 Swords as a physical death.
3 Swords as any situation which causes pain, either emotional or physical.
Chariot for times when I really was aggressive about seeing results in certain situations. Also to represent the car
Wheel for situations/relationships where things just kept going in circles - same situations/reactions, different day, same results.
Ace of Wands as a reunion card, specifically with ex's.
7 Pents/Empress as the death of an animal (a pet).
Sun for positive answers, but also for big egos (with a court card) and also sometimes for a death - like, energy returning to the heavens/to its source.
8 Wands for things happening almost too quickly. 8 Wands + Tower for accidents.
2 Wands for being a bit of a control freak.
Interesting thread! Thanks for digging it up, Dancing!