Originally Posted by Grizabella
This reminds me of an online friendship I had for a couple of years with a woman in England. It seemed such a strong friendship for quite awhile but then she started opening up to me more and I very much disliked her. She thought it was fun to sign up on dating websites, choosing men she knew were extremely vulnerable and not all that attractive, then elaborately building their hopes up, making them think she was in love with them and leading them on, but then when they wanted to meet, she'd send them to some phony address and she got great glee from them thinking they were going to meet her and knowing she'd sent them off on a wild goose chase to some town or village nowhere near where she actually was. I felt actually sick about that. What cruelty!
I've used the term "internet trolls" for people like this. She was so cruel and heartless and all sorts of other negatives. In effect, I guess she just deceived me, too, for the length of time that I thought we were best friends.
The Tower would certainly describe the effect she had on these poor guys who were sincerely looking for a partner only to have the rug jerked out from under them at the last minute.
This actually sounds a lot like her and all the pieces are coming together for me. I wouldn't be surprised if she called that ex over to setup the situation for chaos to add more thrill to her life. she already has everything she needs in life handed to her on a silver platter and lots of ppl are mesmerised by what she has and follow her. I wont stick around cos I'm sure she'll do the same to me. I'm surprised she has friends although I'm sure they are just ppl in awe of how much she and her partner can get away with. It's a good thing she's with a guy who's like herself otherwise she could do some serious damage. But yeah, I cant respect someone like that.
Energypipes - she seems like the kind of person who really uses her figure a lot to get attention. Like because she gets such a thrill from surprising ppl, the easiest way for her to do it is with her body. Maybe she is insecure. I think it's immature and she's holding onto that figure ever so tightly simply because of the thrill she gets from it. She would walk out of her workplace (as a receptionist at the gym, where ppl go to lose weight, even though she never exercises) wearing tiny shorts unbuttoned so you can see her undies and a boob tube the size of tape. she would stare at the wall whilst all the ppl around look at her and then she would get in the car and giggle to herself. Pretty pathetic.