Originally Posted by Babymaker
This is very true. I was thinking about what you said the other day and am thinking that yeah, she must have emotional self esteem issues. Also, the fact she was with her bf on the balcony 'exposing' to the public who are strangers kinda confirms what u say. They have surveillance cameras at their house. And u are right, I reckon she would find clever ways of shaming me if I was on her bad side. Her bf is a bad boy so I think this all shows she likes the wild dangerous side of life. It's funny though, just how many ppl fall for the angel look. Like on facebook I see lots of good guys who fall for her image and comment about how sweet she looks etc, yet she doesn't care at all! She probably thinks she's really clever for doing that too. I mean lets face it, lots of guys fall for sweet girls so it's an easy trick. Wow, a lot uncovered in this thread
You reminded me my childhood friend who was associated with the girl I mentioned. She is actually one of those bike chicks I'm almost certain exposed skin, etc. She took a lot of risque selfies in her early 20's. I don't think for the same thrills, but she definitely called herself the bad girl and she had a thing for bad boys. Maybe that was their connection!
I haven't been in contact with her in years except for her father who I highly admire. Last I heard from her was on FB when I had an account and she was talking about cleaning her life up and her father was holding her accountable to that in messages. This was back in my mid-20's, so she would've been a few years younger. It wasn't that she was immature, as much as she just had to sew a lot of wild oats and maybe she fell into the wrong crowd at some point. Runs in the family, as her father is into bike culture and he had had wild years. Just thought that was interesting...
She did always want me to do stuff we shouldn't be doing in order to break free from her father's iron first. He was very much the Emperor, hiding candy under lock and key, making them eat right, all under the threat of an ass whooping if not obeyed... things really the ideal parent at the time should do, but she still strayed. They had a loving relationship though.
The girl I mentioned I disassociated with got pregnant in her teens (I think) so I don't think she ever had a chance to really let loose in her 20's. She would send people a lot of messages if they ignored her. It's quite sad, but I think she was quite damaged emotionally and was constantly looking for a way out. She seemed sweet enough when she wasn't doing crazy things.