I'm doing this reading for the coming month - though that's the upper limit and I am thinking more of the time period you quoted. That allows the universe a little leeway but not much
The chart I cast has Capricorn rising, which means that your significator is Saturn. Saturn is in Scorpio in the ninth House. In it's present degree Saturn is Peregrine, which means it has no essential dignity. You are not 'at home' in this situation and probably feel that things are beyond your control, unless you have good luck or some help. The ninth house is the house of God, and also the house of the Astrologer (or at least Astrology) so the chart shows you consulting an Astrologer (me
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Well, so far all true! lol! I feel uncomfortable around relationships that have any element of conflict or upset in them. I like things to be harmonious. And I dislike surprises intensely, hence why I am speaking with you, lol!
Taking your relationship with your husband first:He is signified by the ruler of the seventh House, which is the Moon (ruler of Cancer). The Moon is placed in Libra and in the eighth house. The Moon is Combust (within 8.5 degrees of the Sun) and can't be seen. It is also Peregrine, without essential dignity. The general tenor of this position is that He is out of sight as far as you're concerned - the eighth is in conjunct the Ascendant - that is there's no major aspect between the Moon and the Ascendant - a sign of not seeing and it's combust, it can't be seen at all. You therefore don't really know what he's up to.
He is away presently on a business trip. He must travel often this coming month, and so you are correct in believing I cannot see what he is up to, lol!
His 'priorities' are taken from the Moon's sign placement. The eighth is his second house, so money and possessions seem important to him The exaltation ruler for Libra is Saturn - you and Saturn is also the triplicity ruler, so Saturn is the strongest planet at the Moon's position. So while he's interested in the material things, he's even more interested in you. That of course could be because he intends to leave. However to reach that conclusion I'd need to see an Aspect between the Moon and Saturn, preferably a square or an opposition. There is none. So whatever he's up to, it does not involve leaving your, within your time frame and you are his key priority.
Well, true enough about money and possessions being a priority of his, as am I. We had a choppy summer but things had settled down and we seemed to be committed to working things out...Between the two of us, I would have been the one most likely to leave the situation. That was why my cards were troubling me so much! I could not imagine him leaving, especially not now. And I had committed to staying as well. But people can always surprise us, I think. So I had to include him in this feeling of upcoming loss. I am much relieved to see his commitment was faithfully meant.
We certainly have every hope of sorting everything out. It isn't a dramatic or angry relationship, it is just a bit old and tired! lol!
Jupiter is in Cancer, in the seventh house and close to the Ascendant. Jupiter is exalted in Cancer, so these friends are both quite strong - their friendship is, I think, true. The Moon at 19 degrees Libra is separating from a square to Jupiter at 18 degrees Cancer. A separating aspect shows something that has happened in the past. This square seems to show the bad relationships that you've had recently, especially as Cancer is the detriment of Saturn. They are not that 'friendly' but again Saturn is not making any aspect to Jupiter but a separating trine. Again that is a symbol of a past event, I do think your friendship has been stretched by what has happened recently but I don't see a formal break unless it has already happened.
We just seem to have miscommunication more than anything else, but recently the first friend mentioned had seemed to completely withdraw socially, which was puzzling to me. Yesterday I went to her home to see her and we spent a pleasant hour chatting, but I don't feel more than a kind of superficial friendship - it used to be deeper. As we are moving next year, perhaps these friends have decided to detach emotionally from us, in a way.
The second friend I only see physically once every few weeks, and she is a new friend. So I am not sure how predictable the friendship is at this time - and this person is super sensitive, so anything I say may have been misunderstood, though I have been as friendly and caring as possible, as far as I know. It was just odd, she had extended the offer of friendship to me first, then seemed to pull away - and I could not put my finger on what was amiss...
She may have been having a bad day.
Of the two parts to the question, your husband looks the safer bet not to split. He cares about you and whilst his actions seem to be hidden from you, I don't think this indicates any breach. There may be a need to chat things over, but don't start from a position where you think he's planning to leave. Instead start from the position that he's wants to stay.
As husband is far more important to me than friends, this is reassuring indeed! I should hate to have a sudden split. And from where I am standing now, it would be shocking, as it would be the least probable thing to happen!
With your friends, unless the damage has already been done and the friendship had broken down when you asked the question, I don't think there will be a future split. They will need an investment of some time and energy to bring them round and repair things and that might take time. If you do nothing, then I think the friendship will likely end by default - you will drift apart over time, rather than a formal split.
In neither case can you ignore things and hope that they will come right but there's no irrevocable split coming soon. The big danger is doing nothing and allowing drift to lead to separation in the longer term.
Oh, I shan't be allowing drift, lol! I am trying my best to step up to the plate, and give healthy balances of friendship and space. Hopefully it all works out, as I do really like my two Gemini friends! (or should that be four friends, hahaha!)
Well, Minderwiz, I must say that you have put my mind to rest on this. I am much relieved to see that all will be well, and that everything can be worked out satisfactorily. I know life gets in the way, and people get sidetracked, and then we can wonder if we were to blame!
But now I really am curious as to what my "split" cards refer to. I guess I will find out! Thanks again, so very much, for your time and effort, Minderwiz - very much appreciated! Also, thank you for the opportunity to learn about Horary astrology.