Thank you all for your feedback! I don't think we shouldn't let people touch our decks, it's just that I read that when I got my first deck and was first into it and went so long keeping up that tradition with that deck that now it's just stuck - with that deck! I don't usually let others shuffle. Not because I'm not willing to - so not sure why. Maybe I've had people cut the deck into 3 piles. But I'm not good enough to give readings to most people so mostly I just practice on guinea pigs that I know well.
It's kind of cheating because I know them well but not really because the cards are going to say what they're going to say and my interpretations will just be more accurate in knowing the person (i.e. it's not a way to trick them)!
It does make sense, what you're all consistently saying about responding to the art and feeling of the deck (dark, light, open, closed) as well as how comfortable (open) I am with the deck.
It's funny how much I love my decks. I juts love sorting through them and looking at them - just like when I was a toddler I used to sit for long periods of time on the floor of my mom's study while she typed, and go through her shoe box filled with all kinds of playing cards heaped together. I could have done it for hours and probably did, while I sat listening to the music she played on the stereo (which was usually very soothing).
Speaking of music - and this is off-topic I know, but how many of you deliberately choose to play music - and certain types of music - when using tarot? What about when sitting alone as opposed to doing readings? I find music helps me as one who still lacks having practiced and researched a lot (contrary to all the posts that would indicate I've been doing this forever, lol)!