Much thanks!
Oh, Dave and Minderwiz, this is exactly what I was looking for! Not just "this is the orb you should use - so spake the elders", but "here's what I do and why and here's things to think about". It's marvelous and as a student of the art, I do appreciate your experience and opinions.
That said, Minderwiz aptly pointed out something that I had not even considered as I realized that I needed to make some decision on the prickly subject of orbs.
"A couple of issues that you might think about. Firstly, do you allow out of sign aspects and if so how do you deal with them? Is the Sun at 28 degrees Leo in square with Mars at 3 degrees Scorpio or the Moon at 3 degrees Sagittarius? Modern Astrologers would almost certainly answer 'Yes' in both cases - sign is immaterial to an aspect, only degree separation matters. Yet the nature of aspects derive from the nature of the signs (or more particularly their sign rulers) - so can you have a square between two fire signs, which are naturally in trine?"
Oh dear...I'm not at all sure how I feel about out of sign aspects. The course I'm taking (AFA course) says, absolutely, it's all about degree. I'm not sure I agree, especially after Minderwiz brought it up. But then, I'm not sure I disagree, either. The planets are approaching (or retreating from) each other. Mighten that have the "aspect" effect, even if they are in separate signs? Or is the sign the defining factor here? Something that is going to require some further thought on my part, as I figure out how to make this practice of an art my one rather than something rote from a textbook.
Dave, how do you feel about out of sign aspects? I eagerly await anyone else's opinions on these two tricky questions.
As always, I'm grateful for your advice and opinions.
Rae