Sharla
I've asked if the guy i'm still seeing, will leave his wife for me this year.
The thing is, he stays with me now 5 days a week due to a upcoming business situation, and also that he wants to. We have also got emotionally closer over the past few months, and especially with him spending more time with me etc....we basically just click and get each other on every level.
He's very hard at opening up being a sun scorpio, mars scorpio but has finally recently told me he does love me, even though i already knew this was the case a while ago.....but he has finally admitted it.
So ive cast a chart asking if he will leave his wife for me, because as he's staying at mine most of the week, like basically getting up going to work and then coming to mine after, and leaving for work the next day etc, for another couple of months till his business gets up and running.....im now thinking that if it goes from this back to how it was before of being a quick two hour meet up once a week (if im lucky), im not down for this.....things can't go backwards, id rather just let him go if this is the case.....and i've already told him this.
So the Q is.... im not sure on what significators to use, as i am involved in the Q, as ive asked if he will leave her for me.
So in this case id be 1st, he's 7th but then what would she be ....if she's 7th from 7th that make her the same as me, so this wouldn't work.
So as its a 3rd party im not sure how to go about this
I just need to know who's who so i can see what the charts saying.
Ive got a feeling i should be using 10th for her as the arranged marriage, which would make her saturn.
The thing is, he stays with me now 5 days a week due to a upcoming business situation, and also that he wants to. We have also got emotionally closer over the past few months, and especially with him spending more time with me etc....we basically just click and get each other on every level.
He's very hard at opening up being a sun scorpio, mars scorpio but has finally recently told me he does love me, even though i already knew this was the case a while ago.....but he has finally admitted it.
So ive cast a chart asking if he will leave his wife for me, because as he's staying at mine most of the week, like basically getting up going to work and then coming to mine after, and leaving for work the next day etc, for another couple of months till his business gets up and running.....im now thinking that if it goes from this back to how it was before of being a quick two hour meet up once a week (if im lucky), im not down for this.....things can't go backwards, id rather just let him go if this is the case.....and i've already told him this.
So the Q is.... im not sure on what significators to use, as i am involved in the Q, as ive asked if he will leave her for me.
So in this case id be 1st, he's 7th but then what would she be ....if she's 7th from 7th that make her the same as me, so this wouldn't work.
So as its a 3rd party im not sure how to go about this
I just need to know who's who so i can see what the charts saying.
Ive got a feeling i should be using 10th for her as the arranged marriage, which would make her saturn.