Would they rather be with Them or Me?

In my time on this site, I have stumbled upon a lot of partner perspective related spreads (what does he think/feel of me, etc). And there are spreads for choosing between two potential partners. But, other than Metafizzypop's "The Other Woman Spread" there isn't much for people in a situation where THEY are the person someone is choosing between.

So, voila!

.......1.......2.....
......3/5......4/6....
.......7.......8.....
.......9......10......


1 - How does X feel about me
2 - How does X feel about Y
3 - What does X want from me
4 - What does X want from Y
(5 and 6 cross 3 and 4)
5 - What do I want
6 - What does Y want
7 - Where does X see our relationship going
8 - Where does X see the relationship with Y going
9 - What is the outcome between X and I
10 - What is the outcome between X and Y

This looks like a helpful spread.
I now personally I have been in situations, or known people in situations where it isn't always the other person choosing between them or another love interest, sometimes the "other" is friends, sometimes it's family, sometimes it's work or money! I bet this could work very nicely with that type of thing.
Thanks for sharing! I'll be sure to give this one a try!

Thank you for this! I've been looking for different spreads for some of the more tricky intricacies of those relationships with more than one person. I think this could be really quite useful.