Sazzle
Thank you, this is really interesting especially nobody knows what's really true ... and many many good wishes, may you achieve in life what you wish. If you're a Christian, what's the role of prayer? Jesus says we can pray and we'll be heard, doesn't he? You don't need to answer, obviously
I know that's the beauty of life and opinions. No one knows but it's fun learning and trying! Long as we do no harm to another obviously haha.
I do pray, every day, in fact the last 3 years of my life have been very very weird - long story I'll save you the rant haha. However I prayed for 2 years to find a job, it was a very low two years for me. Turns out I got one the other month and it was a start up business (well, a sole trader business got taken over by an investor the month before I found that job). So if that was the right job for me, I suppose it boils down to timing. After 3 years of unanswered prayers about love, or answered in a this is what you think you want, then they get taken away, I stopped praying (well begging lol) god to send me love, now I pray that he keeps whoever it is safe, leads him to the right dirextion (in life and to me), maybe it's not the right time to meet yet I suppose I've had to really practise patience in the last few years lol