MandMaud
So good to hear, BeccaBoo; thanks for popping back to update us.
Mourning happens, and you will find when you come through that, hopefully you end up pretty zen about the 7 years. Myself i'm still at the stage of accidentally coming out with a rant when I thought I was just going to say one "objective" thing(!) and I'll have to see how long I take to get past this phase, and what helps move out of it.
You are very welcome to rant at great length by PM to me. Getting it out of your system is part of the healing methinx. And your ex sounds VERY like mine, every single example you give, in fact, is either something he would do, or something he has done.
Sounds like you KNOW that, too - not just declaring it as an intention, convincing yourself or firing yourself up, but a real thing. If you know what I mean.
And Strength made so much strength, yes. Attagirl. Plus {hugz} with a touch of emotional sticky plaster.
Indeed!I realized I do not really care that it is over. This, in all reality, speaks VOLUMES
... That stings! I know - and you've done brilliantly, with me it ended up 24 years. You've done so well.Though I am not happy right now, it is because. I gave almost 7 years to a man who still refuses to listen and instead of taking responsibility
Mourning happens, and you will find when you come through that, hopefully you end up pretty zen about the 7 years. Myself i'm still at the stage of accidentally coming out with a rant when I thought I was just going to say one "objective" thing(!) and I'll have to see how long I take to get past this phase, and what helps move out of it.
You are very welcome to rant at great length by PM to me. Getting it out of your system is part of the healing methinx. And your ex sounds VERY like mine, every single example you give, in fact, is either something he would do, or something he has done.
Bravo, bravo!! *applause*I will not let her grow up thinking that that behavior is okay. Instead, she will see a mother strong enough to stand on her own while her dad chooses his job instead of his family and eventually she will see me with a man who knows how to treat both her and myself.
Sounds like you KNOW that, too - not just declaring it as an intention, convincing yourself or firing yourself up, but a real thing. If you know what I mean.
Not nearly as long-winded as I can be... lolThat turned into far more of a tangent than I ever meant it to... Oops. What can I say? Lol. I am a long winded person.
And Strength made so much strength, yes. Attagirl. Plus {hugz} with a touch of emotional sticky plaster.