Next Step in Conflict - Advice Spread

Miren

When I was walking through dealing with a client who wasn't paying (and still didn't pay), I used this advice spread to help me calm down and take the next step. All things considered, the situation resolved to my partial satisfaction--I didn't get paid, but he didn't get the product.


*******4
1**2**3*6
*******5

1. What's the situation? (clarifying which aspect to focus on)
2. How is the client/other person approaching it?
3. How am I approaching it?
4. What's the best step for me to take next?
5. What's the worst step for me to take next?
6. What will taking the #4 step lead to?

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My deck seemed to have fun with the spread--once it told me: 4. 7P & 5. Devil. The next time it told me 4. Devil & 5. 7P. The time for waiting and being polite & business-like was over...though I never abandoned my professionalism even in bringing the whole thing to a point and taking it back. But it was a bit fun to be the Devil.
 

pez_man

A great spread, and just not for conflicts, but any type of relations, thanks a lot!
 

Cobalt

Excellent spread. I'm going to try and keep this in mind, since most people who ask me to do a reading are asking me to help them think through a conflict of some kind.

I'm glad it worked out well for you. Hopefully I--and my friends--will be able to get good use out of this.
 

Schnee

Hmm I will definitly try this one out and keep you posted!
Thank you!