Aeric
Are there other decks besides Sol Invictus and Gods & Titans where male gods are the focus of the cards?
Have you seen the Fountain deck?
The Gay Tarot, which despite its name doesn't exclude straight males - it's more a masculine look at the world. It would have to be the best.
A deck may speak eloquently for its intended audience but that doesn't mean people not of its intended audience are incapable of attuning it to their perspective.
The "revelation" could be that the young man is confessing something negative. It could be an addiction, a crime he committed, a different (opposite-sex) person than who his parents preferred. There are many angles you could read the card concerning "coming out" about earth-shattering secrets that have nothing to do with same-sex attraction or identity. There is an intended interpretation but it's not necessarily "perfect."
The "Self-Hatred" card could just as easily be about some straight men who are constantly pressured by their parents to marry and start a family, when the ideal of the 2.4 children in the house with the white picket fence is the single image they're bombarded by.
The only cards in the deck that deal explicitly with same-sex attraction are the ones that depict two men engaged in romantic activities, and those are comparably few. Yet evn those could have "perfect" maning to a heterosexual man.
I frequently study Goddess decks intended for use by women exploring their uniqueness and power alone or in groups. I'm not female and I don't have many of women's experiences, yet the cards speak to me on a certain level as I seek to understand them, and to better understand women's experiences.
I wonder if there is also such a thing as a masculine reading style. Someone suggested here that Tarot is in itself something that defies masculinity, since it is all about intuition. But that seems a generalization, as there are styles of reading other than than. This would seem to be that style of reading that is heavy on attributions, occult ideas, astrology, kabbalah, magick, etc. I myself certainly have no use for hearts and fairies, or really any excessively intuitive deck.
Besides, there's more to masculinity than being macho.