Ferne
Hi Everyone...
The other day I asked my sister/best friend if I could come over and try reading cards for her. I have never done a person to person reading and figured she would be a good place to start.
She said yes, come and do a reading for me and then I'll read yours.
She caught me off guard when she said that. I told her firmly no, you can't use my cards. She looked hurt and confused. (we always share everything..whats hers is mine and whats mine is hers, and thats the way it has always been between us).
I tried to explain to her that if her energy gets into my cards that she will mess them up.
I know she didn't understand. To her it must of sounded like I was telling her she had "germs" or something.
Should I have let her use my cards and then smudge them afterwards? Was I too defensive?
I decided next time I see her I will give her an old deck of mine that I had never used (Radiant RW), sew her a tarot bag and give her a box from the dollar store.
I feel really awful and it's been hanging over me like a dark cloud all day.
What do you do when friends and family ask to use your cards. Is there a better way I could have handled this?
Your suggestions would be appreciated...thanks.
The other day I asked my sister/best friend if I could come over and try reading cards for her. I have never done a person to person reading and figured she would be a good place to start.
She said yes, come and do a reading for me and then I'll read yours.
She caught me off guard when she said that. I told her firmly no, you can't use my cards. She looked hurt and confused. (we always share everything..whats hers is mine and whats mine is hers, and thats the way it has always been between us).
I tried to explain to her that if her energy gets into my cards that she will mess them up.
I know she didn't understand. To her it must of sounded like I was telling her she had "germs" or something.
Should I have let her use my cards and then smudge them afterwards? Was I too defensive?
I decided next time I see her I will give her an old deck of mine that I had never used (Radiant RW), sew her a tarot bag and give her a box from the dollar store.
I feel really awful and it's been hanging over me like a dark cloud all day.
What do you do when friends and family ask to use your cards. Is there a better way I could have handled this?
Your suggestions would be appreciated...thanks.