The Secret Crush Spread

Metafizzypop

Have you ever had a secret crush on someone? It's kinda fun, but it's unbearable at the same time. Hopefully this spread will make life easier for you during that time that you're crushin'.

-----13----
10--11--12
-7---8---9-
-4---5---6-
-1---2---3-

1. What the true nature of my feelings are for the person.
2. What it is that I like about him/her.
3. How the person feels about me.
4. How would he react if I told him what my feelings are about him?
5. How would he react if I asked him out?
6. How would he react if I made a sexual advance toward him?
7. The best way for me to act when I'm around him.
8. The best way for me to deal with my feelings when I'm not around him.
9. What would happen if I discussed my feelings with a friend.
10. What the possibilities are for romance between me and my crush.
11. What the possibilities are for a different kind of relationship.
12. Are there any other women in his life that I should know about?
13. Outcome - what will ultimately happen between me and my crush.


ETA: This spread isn't limited to being used just for a "secret crush" specifically. It could be used for anyone you've taken an interest in.
 

Eowyn

Hi! You are so kind, to post this I mean!!

:heart: I will try it.

ETA: Maybe not all the questions, though... :) big spread!
 

Metafizzypop

Yes, I know it's a big spread, but I wanted to cover all the bases. Have fun playing with it, and I hope it helps you out!
 

Metafizzypop

Maybe not all the questions, though... :) big spread!

Yeah, you're right. I took another look at this spread, and I decided it really did have way too many cards.

Anyway, I whittled it down and did a short version. The original long one is fine for someone who likes a lot of information, but sometimes people just want to get right to the point, you know? So here's a shaved-down version that I think might be a little more practical.

-4---5---6-
-1---2---3-

1. What the true nature of my feelings are for the person.
2. How the person feels about me.
3. How would he react if I told him my feelings?
4. The best way to act when I'm around him.
5. Are there any other women in his life I should know about?
6. Outcome - what will ultimately happen between me and my crush.


ETA: This is just one suggestion for shortening the spread. With this spread it's easy to pick and choose whatever questions from it that you want to use. It's easy to play with.
 

rwcarter

Moderator Note

A discussion of some of the cards pulled using this spread has been split off into a new thread in Using Tarot Cards titled Secret Crush Spread.