lark
I haven't used it for others either...feels like you said a very personal deck.lark, I think you hit the nail on the head with your impressions. I used the Mary-El exclusively for a while, and it remains to be a private deck. I find that I don't want to use it to read for others—there's something about it that invites me to imbue it with a very personal and intimate energy. It's darker than the Greenwood for me, but I get what you mean about it being "channeled." I should probably do more ancestor work with it soon.
Oh, there was a time when I wanted to trim it, but Schiffer cardstock makes me cringe, so I left it alone. I think it was the right decision.
Definitely darker than the Greenwood.
I have gone back and forth about trimming it too.
I wasn't sure how the Schiffer card stock would trim..so mine is still untrimmed.